“You cannot be hurt, and do not want to show your brother anything except your wholeness. Show him that he cannot hurt you and hold nothing against him, or you hold it against yourself. This is the meaning of ‘turning the other cheek.’ (T82)”
Affirmation: “You cannot be hurt.”
1 – Pain Hurts Ourselves and Others
It hurts our brother for him (or her) to see that he has hurt us. While our brother may not tell us this, and he even may not recognize it, still is it true. We cannot seek to hurt another without being in pain ourselves.
2 – The Real Self Is Unhurt
Our real Self cannot be hurt in any way. This is a magnificent truth that even among seasoned veterans of the Course can easily be overlooked as we live daily in this world. Certainly we seem to suffer, or, at the least, to know pain–even when it doesn’t lead to real suffering. Yet the Self continues unabated. The Self knows that we are whole.
3 – The Personal Self Is Hurt
Our real Self is not hurt, but it is still obvious that the personal self does seem to be hurt by words and actions of other people in our world. We also seem to hurt the personal self through our own thoughts, words, and actions. We should not deny the fact that the dream in which we find ourselves seems very real indeed. We are not to deny what appears before our eyes, for as long as we are in the dream and not yet in the real world, we will have times in which we are hurt, either by others or by ourselves. Jesus does not ask in A Course in Miracles that we live in denial of what we see before us; he only indicates that we are lost in a dream that we are making up. We are the actors; we are doing this unto ourselves (ACIM tenets).
4 – “Turn the Other Cheek”
What a blessing to have in the Course this interpretation of the New Testament injunction of “turn the other cheek.” So often over the years have Christians sought to understand this scripture, and so often we have failed to understand. May the Course remedy that confusion. We are whole Selves, and a part of us that we do not usually recognize is unhurt by anything that the world can do to us.
Now that I know the real meaning of “turn the other cheek,” may I do so promptly when something happens that disturbs me. May I realize that my real Self is never hurt at all.
May I come to feel my real Self more and more. When I do so, I am safe in this world. Thank you for this safety.