That for which we do forgive our brother is really what we are ready to forgive in ourselves. We always accuse ourselves first; what we see as unforgivable in another is what we are holding against ourselves. The “sin” may not be in the same form, but it can be metaphorically described so that it is seen to be the same. Often others can see the connections more easily than can one person alone. We should talk with our friends and family as we seek to practice the A Course in Miracles. We are not in this all alone; we are in this together.
–from Out of the Maze, an e-book by the author of this blog.