“Rather, it was more like a mathematical concept. It was the idea of space, in which extension could occur. There were not yet planets and suns. There was not yet a single atom or molecule of matter. There was pure thought, pure Love, pure being, beginning to entertain, and I emphasize that word for a certain reason, the idea of pure space, pure extension—unlimited, unbounded, forever. There was pure Spirit. That is what you are, now and forever. Spirit does not change.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 16, Page 189)
Spirit is an energy that pervades the whole. In the beginning (if we can say that), there was nothing but Spirit. Then God moved, and His energy–or Thought–slowed down a bit, and lo and behold, matter came into being. Matter has been most of what we have known. And unfortunately, in our separation from God–something that we, in error, imagined we wanted–we developed a false self, an ego, that felt all alone and lonely without our Creator, God Himself.
Now things are changing for us. We know that egotism is not the way of the Christ-Mind. And we are tired and burned out from the suffering that our ego has laid upon us. We now have a new choice before us–choosing God, again, this time to stay with Him. Our ego diminishes into nothingness, and we have true joy in our newfound communion with our Creator.
We are pure Spirit, and despite our foray into egotism, our essence has not changed.
Now we choose again, this time in Love. And Love, with a capital “L,” is God Himself.
“You are God Itself. Now, that is the first time that we have been quite so bold. It is the first time that we have described you as that which is God. This can only mean that what you are in your essence, in your essential being, is God Himself.” (“The Way of Transformation,” The Way of Mastery, Chapter 16, Page 188)
What this quotation is saying is that the All, everything, is composed of “God-stuff.” There is no energy that exists except the essence of God, and He created children from that Essence that are differentiated out of His very being. We are those children.
There are differences, of course, starting with the fact that we are finite and lack full knowledge. We could not live if we knew it all, because our mind would act like a computer drive that has had too much data stored in it (an analogy from A Course of Love). We have also “fallen,” in that we made an ego that has separated us from God—or so we thought. We could not actually separate from Him, for we are part of Him, part of His essence.
When we return to God, to know it, we will be in a position to partake more of His very essence. Our benefits will be great, for love and loving will be the way we live. Love is God, as we know. But God is not an emotion, and so by this statement we mean something grander than the emotion of love. We draw sustenance from Love (something that remains a mystery), for when we forgive completely, we know that we are safe in His arms (we know this from A Course in Miracles, which stresses forgiveness as our great need).
And when we have walked the whole way back to God, we will then know that there is really nothing to forgive. The dream is over, the reality is in full sway now.
“You are Spirit. You are that which has come forth as a ray of Light from the Mind of God, as a sunbeam to the sun. In that form-less beginning, you are consciousness itself.” (“The Way of Transformation,” The Way of Mastery, Chapter 16, Page 188)
Our Spirit is what is real, and our Spirit has no form. Our form, we can believe, came later, and because we made an ego, we have had quite a rocky time in form. Our consciousness is one with God, though we are finite and He is unlimited.
We need to return our form to God’s fold. If we can relinquish the ego, we will, according to A Course of Love, walk along the road to Christ-consciousness and embody the “elevated Self of form.” Many of our brothers and sisters are expanding their consciousness even as I write, so why not all of us? We do have some choice in the matter, though God has the final say.
When we remove fear and judgment from our range of emotions, we are preparing ourselves for God’s action in Awakening, enlightenment, Christ-consciousness. If we feel unsure how we could ever stop being fearful, or ever stop judging ourselves and our brothers and sisters, we need only withdraw into prayer and communion with our God. He will tell us what to do. He wants us to move to a new, expanded mind and heart, and He will always be right with us to speed along that eventuality.
“The world cannot keep you down in its insanity. The eyes of the body close, and as they close, the world they had shown you recedes and the real world appears.” (“The Way of Transformation,” Way of Mastery, Chapter 15, Page 186)
When we close our eyes and return to a memory of God, we are set to open our eyes on a different world, a real world. When we are living in love, we are living in reality. Of course, our world still exists in the realm of thought, because all material things will one day disintegrate and return to energy, which is another, secular, word for God. Matter, I believe, is just slowed down energy, but the thought that makes matter is still one with God.
We have been living a dream, an illusion. Now we are set to see a change to true reality, to a life that we have not been able to imagine in our wildest imaginings.
We are free to embrace God at any moment. I can imagine that He has been waiting for this moment of embrace.
Let’s tell Him we love Him. And then feel His presence.
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Being Who You Are: Pondering A Course of Love
by Celia Hales
Being Who You Are offers contemplative reflections onA Course of Love that are meant for readers of A Course in Miracles and A Course of Love as well as newcomers to the material.
A Course of Love answers questions that spiritual seekers may still have despite earnest study of A Course in Miracles. Being Who You Are highlights these answers in words carefully chosen for clarity and understanding.
Being Who You Are presents A Course of Love as a heartfelt continuation of the coursework provided in the more mind-focused A Course in Miracles. Chapters concentrate on the following themes: love; fear; holy vs. special relationships; the nature of true reality; mind, heart, and wholeheartedness; unity and relationship; Christ-consciousness/Awakening; separation from God healed; Jesus and Mary; and the elevated Self of form. Tender human interest stories round out the ten comprehensive chapters.
This book, by the long-time blogger at “Miracles Each Day,” has been designed with care to introduce A Course of Love into the spiritual mainstream.
INTRODUCTION from Being Who You Are
A Course in Love answers questions that earnest seekers still have despite careful study of A Course in Miracles. A Course of Love (ACOL) is thus a stated “continuation” (A.4) of the earlier work, though ACOL can be read independently. Most dedicated students of A Course in Miracles (ACIM) recognize that our egos have been weakened by our carrying out the dictates of what we have read. But with what do we replace the ego? There is a void, and this is a dangerous condition in which to live. We intuitively know this, and so we keep seeking. “Is there no end to seeking?” we ask, somewhat plaintively. There is an end to seeking, and A Course of Love takes us to that end. As an aid to understanding this new end, Being Who You Are reflects upon ten themes from A Course of Love, drawing on the whole of ACOL, and also comparing aspects of A Course in Miracles.
With weakened egos after studying A Course in Miracles, but with nothing to replace the ego, in the words of A Course of Love we have “rejected” ourselves. We think that to claim our rightful place of identity with the Christ within lacks humility. A Course of Love says that such an attitude is actually borne of fear: We are afraid we will not please God if we take on a more exalted notion of ourselves.
You prefer selflessness to self because this is your chosen way to abolish ego and to please God.” (ACOL, P.20)
But now we approach final learning, and we learn what “pleasing” God is all about—
We take a step away from the intellect, the pride of the ego, and approach final learning through the realm of the heart. This is why, to end confusion, we call this course A Course of Love. (ACOL, P.44)
There is a single significant difference between A Course in Miracles and A Course of Love.A Course in Miracles, through the Holy Spirit, brings comfort to the mind. A Course of Love brings comfort to a troubled heart. This comfort to the heart is by identity with the Christ within. It is not a comfort for pride but solace brought to us by Jesus himself. He embraces us with love.
The thesis of A Course of Love can perhaps be summed up in the following sequence of ideas: We abandon all attempts to glorify the separated self, the self who does not know God but thinks it is lost to Him because of our sin. When we wholeheartedly abandon any attempt to glorify this self, we are launched on the way to Christ-consciousness, a transformation that will let us know that our previous faults were mistakes only, not sins, and thus entirely correctable and forgivable. We merge ACIM and ACOL, in that we merge mind and heart, and we recognize that we are actually in union with God, never separated from Him. He lives through us.
Note these words from the conclusion of A Course of Love:
“You will realize that you know what to do. . . . Expect heaven on earth, you were told. This is what it is. There will be no doubt, no indecision. Your path will be so clear to you it will be as if it is the only path in the world and you will wonder why you didn’t see it all along. Expect this. And it will be. (E5-6)
May this pondering speak loudly and powerfully to your heart and mind–“wholeheartedly.” Let us claim the heritage that is ours, no longer fearful that we are acting out of ego. Jesus asks us to leave our fears behind and claim our power with new identity. Then the more widespread Awakening of our world surely will begin.
The framework of A Course of Love, in that it is a “course,” is the same as A Course in Miracles; the channeling author, Jesus, the same. The first receiver (scribe) of A Course of Love is Mari Perron, and she received for three years around the year 2000.
In these contemplative reflections on A Course of Love, let us see how we are to come to the end of seeking.
“[Y]ou are free to receive the Love of God, to choose only loving thoughts, to look gently upon everyone and every event, seeing only perfect innocence.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 185)
We are free to look gently upon others. In the eyes of God, we are merely children. We make mistakes, we don’t understand the action or inaction of others, we ourselves still get angry and “vent.” But we are actually still innocent creatures, as A Course in Miracles tells us. We have been living in a dream of reality, and dreams are often ridiculous in the way that they move from scene to scene, incorporating outlandish images before our eyes.
We are sure to have God’s love, only and especially when the world doesn’t seem to treat us well. He always treats us well, for none of the adverse circumstances that we face are punishments from Him. God is always and only loving, as Jesus told us when he walked the earth. We don’t know why bad things happen to good people, but we can learn, and discover, from these bad things.
Treat others with gentleness. Walk the earth gently. Forgive one’s self for lapses in good thinking, and forgive others for the same.
We are walking toward a glorious future. The stones in our path, if we trip, cannot keep us down long.
“[Y]ou have chosen to awaken from the uselessness of separation, the uselessness of victimhood, and the uselessness of weakness. And you have chosen to accept the empowerment of becoming responsible for this dimension of creation, the empowerment of deciding to walk the Earth as the arisen Christ.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 184)
When we accept the peace of God, we are joining forces with the Almighty to walk the world as a risen Christ. This is not an egoic thing; when we have relinquished the ego, we are ready to walk ever more certainly on the pathway back to God. And we will enjoy Christ-consciousness/Awakening.
God knows us better than we know ourselves. He will grant Christ-consciousness to us when He knows that this blessing will only bless.
Sometimes there are impediments in the way of His granting that we don’t recognize. But we can pray that we know what these impediments are, and we can pray to know how to remove them. Fear and judgment are the main impediments, according to A Course of Love.
We give up our weaknesses when we walk into the sunlight. The main way that we can attain a new power is to spend time communing with God, time in prayer. Books help, of course, but the main thing is to turn inward and see what is still a problem for us. Then we are empowered to change things.
Change is possible for all of us.
Nobody is outside the Kingdom when we choose a closer walk, a walk aided by the Divine.
“My question for you is, would you be willing to surrender your illusions in order to remember the peace of God? The question is whether or not you will accept the atonement for yourself, the resurrection for yourself, and be determined to walk this Earth as one who has arisen.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 184)
God makes the decision about our receiving Christ-consciousness, but we can delay and even say “no.” He needs our acquiescence, and here we read from Jesus several aspects of what God is looking for in us before He acts: our surrendering illusions, accepting the atonement and the resurrection, and being determined to walk in this world a one who has arisen.
These words in The Way of Mastery are the only place in my reading that I have ever seen detailed what God is looking for in deciding to bestow His peace. And His peace will certainly include, at some point, Awakening.
Let’s pay close attention, and let’s ask to be shown how to carry out these desires that come from God. Really to understand what we might do.
We have to be ready to walk the Earth as one arisen. If this frightens us, then we are not ready.
“As you look upon each segment, each scene, and each minute in your movie, begin to cultivate the deliberate practice of recognizing that you are in a field of energy that is your perfect servant. Within that moment, you are the one with the power to make that moment be whatever you wish it to be. It can be filled with Christ consciousness. Or it can be filled with temporary insanity. The choice is always yours.” (“The Way of Transformation,” The Way of Mastery, Chapter 15, Page 183)
We are in a movie, the movie of our lives. We wrote the script.
Of course, we can’t understand this, but this is what Jesus is saying in this quotation for today.
We can be blessed by our moments, or we can find fault with what we see. We have this choice. We also have the choice of making changes if we don’t like what we see. This choice is always ours as well.
If we begin our day well, then we are in line for the best that we can create. If we begin our day in sadness, then this self-fulfilling prophecy will move forward throughout the day.
We have more power than we realize. God grants this power to us. But we need to ask Him for direction. Access His guidance and see if we don’t start having good days, every day.
The choice is ours, because God wills us only good.
“You have a phrase in your world: ‘There is nothing to fear but fear itself.’ That is ninety-eight percent accurate. . . . The final two-percent would be to say there is nothing to fear, since fear is only a temporary insanity, and your right-mindedness is but a choice away.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 182)
Jesus is saying here that we can choose to eliminate fear from our experience, by making a new choice.
We may need some help, though, and the greatest help comes from God. He will calm us down immeasurably. When we settle down, do our best to relax, and clear our mind by turning to our heart, we are doing all that we can do. The rest comes from God.
What we give we receive. And when we give peace in our talks with God, He returns that peace to us in a palpable way that we sense, if not right away, in the moments as they pass by and we just think of Him.
This works. Put aside any skepticism, and let God have His way with us.
“Beloved friends, the world that you look upon is not real! . . . But it is a creation that can be impregnated with the perfect Love of God.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 182)
When we are living in love, we are living in reality. Then the creation that is the world is “impregnated” with the “perfect Love of God.”
We see with real vision when we live in love. Our physical eyes see with a nonphysical expression. When this first occurs, we see little edges of light around the same familiar objects in our everyday world. This is one of the signs that real vision is coming upon us.
Real vision is not seen with the physical eyes. It is something else entirely. We see with Love that is imbued with the harmonies of love, peace, tolerance, kindness.
This physical world will one day disintegrate. It is only slowed down energy of the cosmos.
But the real vision that we have when we are living in Love will be eternal.
Take a moment today to ask for real vision and to see the real world.
“For I, like you, was once a student of the ways of seeking God. And I dove deep into the nature of consciousness and mind itself and discovered how to attune the mind, the emotions, and even the nervous system of the body to resonate with the perfect will and Love of God.
“To begin to prepare a place for that teaching, return to the practice of abiding as Christ for at least five minutes. Then, as that five-minute practice period is completed, allow the eyes to close . . . .
“Then, as you are beginning to feel that sense of relaxation ever more deeply, hold the thought:
“As Christ, in perfect safety, I release all tension. As Christ, in perfect safety, I dissolve my mind in the perfect peace of God.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 180 – 181)
This long quotation tells us much. In The Way of Mastery, we were earlier encouraged to imagine (and to practice) sitting “as Christ” for five minutes. This is similar to practices recommended in the Workbook of A Course in Miracles, but without the Workbook affirmation.
This practice of imagining ourselves as a Christ, keen on the imagination, will work just as well as affirmations to calm us down and give us a good day. Remember that Christ, as used in both The Way of Mastery and A Course in Miracles, is a plural term meant to include anyone who has walked far along the pathway back to God. I don’t think we have actually to have experienced Christ-consciousness or Awakening to see ourselves as a Christ. Seeing ourselves AS a Christ is part of the preparation for this transformation.
Spend five minutes quietly today, imagining ourselves as a part of Christ. If we stay in quietness, the rewards for this practice are great.
“. . .[A]s you have created your journey away from God in your imagination, so too do you imagine—or bring into the form of images—the very pathway that returns you to your true reality.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 180)
Our imagination runs deep; it creates our true reality. This way of viewing life is reassuring in the extreme. We never actually left God, for we are a part of Him, and we cannot separate from our Source. But we thought we left him, and our imagination in this delusion made for havoc.
Let’s put all this nonsense behind us today. We can. If we will enlarge our trust of God, He will do the rest.
We want to return to true reality, a reality that has left the ego in the dust. Leave egotism. Choose love in every instance. This can sometimes be “tough love,” but love, if viewed rightly, is our holy way of returning to God for real.
Use some time today to imagine the world we really want. Then watch the form take shape.
This creation will give us comfort as well as ensure that our days ahead will be filled with promise.
“Beloved friends, The Way of Transformation does, indeed, require your commitment. Where you feel that your commitment has wavered, simply choose anew. And the end of the journey must be perfectly certain.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 180)
It is impossible to go through life without getting demoralized, at least part of the time—and this is especially true on this path to Christ-consciousness (Way of Transformation). We are apt to get impatient when we try, and try, and try some more, and God doesn’t see it our way. Because he has to make the decision of when we are ready.
What do we do? We take a step back and decide that He knows more than we do. Then we develop some patience with his timing.
The transformation may come suddenly. I know a man who recently experienced this Awakening in the midst of “venting” his frustration to his wife. He was very surprised to sense that transformation had indeed occurred—but it was unmistakable. And in the next second, he knew that this was not a glimpse, that it would last.
What was going on here? God was telling him that the suppression of his anger, for many years, was not truthful. He had been actually keeping himself from experiencing Christ-consciousness by trying to be something he wasn’t.
He had thought that fear was the problem. But the actual moment of Awakening taught him otherwise.
Ask to have blocks like the one of this man removed for us. God knows what is keeping us with feet of clay. Ask to be elevated from the Earth today. Ask what is the impediment.
“You have never failed to create and attract precisely those most beautiful lessons that have triggered for you what you most need to learn, what you most need to feel.” (“The Way of Transformation,” The Way of Mastery, Chapter 15, Page 179)
This quotation lets us know, in beautiful language, that we are living in a protected universe. We are creating the lessons that we need to learn. Our mind is one with God’s, and He creates for us the opportunities that we need to have. We are not alone in what we experience. Our creations could not be so precise unless we are receiving help from a greater Power than just our personal self.
Let us be reassured today that, when we listen, we will be guided. Our lessons under these conditions will be benign. We will not hurt. Our suffering is and has always been needless. Now we know that we are creating the very circumstances that we need to progress back to God in the best and quickest way possible.
We are discovering what we most need to discover. This is why I say that it is a “protected” universe.
The end is certain. We are going to be at home in God, and, if we stay true to His direction, this being “at home” will come quickly. Not in death, but in life, for Heaven is an experience that awaits us as we live on Earth.
“You have a term in your legal system called temporary insanity. The lawyer says, ‘My client is not guilty, it was just temporary insanity.’ Rest assured, that is exactly how it is in the cosmic dimensions of your being. Your Father knows that given perfectly free will, you have elected at times to be temporarily insane. Knowing this, no judgment has been passed, and you have never been made wrong by your Creator.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 15, Page 179)
When we have gotten it wrong, have made bad mistakes, then God knows that we have used our free will wrongly. He doesn’t have to forgive, because He has never condemned. God never condemns! Isn’t this wonderful? We have so often felt, wrongly, that if we made a mess of our lives, He would not be happy with us. But He knows, that given free will, we will sometimes get it wrong.
He seeks to help us at such times. He will lift us out of the morass, lift us up, and reassure us that He never even “saw” the error. He will help us to avoid that error in the future. Life is a learning process, at least until we have gone beyond learning to discovery—A Course of Love concept.
God does not “make us wrong.” We do this judgment of ourselves. And it is wrong to judge ourselves, as it is wrong to judge others.
Just turn aside from wrongdoing, forgive ourselves, make restitution if possible, and know that God realizes that we are finite beings with limited knowledge that sometimes goes astray from what we are meant to do.
“You abide nowhere but in the infinitude of God’s presence. Mastery comes when finally you choose to release all attachment to fear. And in perfect surrender, you release the dream of the dreamer itself, and allow the mystery of Life to live you, without obstruction, without fear, in perfect knowledge that:
“I and my Father are one. There is nothing I have to do to get God. There are only some things to be released, so that God can get me.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 177)
Ask what we need to do today so that God can have full rein in our lives, so that “God can get me.” He is waiting patiently, deep within, for the blessing of our saying, “I surrender to You.”
We need to “be willing to have it so,” an Eastern concept that means that we surrender to what life evolves for us. This doesn’t mean that we acquiesce to something bad; we can still choose to change things. But often we don’t need to change anything at all. God has everything in hand.
The “awful” thing that we want to turn from may, in fact, be a blessing in disguise. We never know, in our finiteness, for in this world we are limited in what we can know at any given time.
Trust in the future. Trust God to take things in hand, and us with those things.
“And by using time wisely, I cultivated over time, the willingness and the ability to seek first the Kingdom, even to the point where I was doing it prior to every word spoken, every gesture made with the body. . . .” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 176)
If we could only be like Jesus in this—to seek the Kingdom prior to everything that we do! We can only try, and when we succeed, we will be blessed beyond description.
How exactly would we do this? It can only come by staying in close contact with our inner Being, where God dwells. This part of us is accessed by intuition, listening to the Divine as it presents itself to us. Our insight will grow the more that we turn to the Inner on as much of a constant basis as we can possibly manage.
Listen for the silent whispers of how to proceed in our day. We don’t “hear” anything, but we do know, and this knowing is profound.
Don’t forget God today. He is our Helper, our Guide, our guidance. And the quicker that we turn to Him before we take action, the more our very actions will bless us.
“I decided to be in relationship with the totality of my Self—mind, spirit, soul, emotion, body—with the same sense of awe and mystery that I felt when I looked upon the farthest of stars deep into the night on a quiet hillside. And that changed everything.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 175 – 176)
Jesus is speaking in this channeled work from Jayem. Here Jesus says that he began to see his totality with awe and mystery.
We might do the same, for our spirit partakes of the same essence of God. Jesus was onto something here. If we think about ourselves as a mystery that we can’t fully comprehend, we will be led to turn to God for a resolution of that mystery.
Think about the wonder of our very Self today. Let God speak to our heart about who we really are.
“I began to discern what brought me true joy. Not just a moment of pleasure, or satisfaction, or sense of security, but which elicited true joy. I discovered that what always brought joy was when I was willing to surrender into the awe of mystery. . . .” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 175)
We too can experience true joy when we let our mind and heart rise upward to the true mystery of God. Jesus is here laying out a pathway for us to follow, too.
We need to be aware when we are feeling joy as opposed to simply the earthly happiness. Joy is on a higher plane, more akin to heaven on earth than our usual egoic world. We have flights of happiness when the ego rules, but we don’t experience true joy—joy that lasts and warms our heart constantly.
Ask today to experience this true joy. Lift our mind and heart to the mysteries of God. Experience awe in His presence.
“The use of time determines, at all levels, what you will experience in your tomorrows. . . .[L]ong after the body dies, you will indeed be continually stepping into your tomorrows.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 172)
This quotation is a poignant reminder of our eternal life, “stepping into your tomorrows.” We need to know that we are preparing for the future always, even as we try with all our might to live in the Now (as Tolle says). If we stay close to God, we will know how to make the best use of all of the Now times. We will thereby be doing all that we can to ensure a good future.
We must not live in the past. It is true that we can learn from the past, but we don’t want to get “stuck” in it. The best preparation for the future is today well lived. I read that a long time ago, too long to give a footnote. It is something that we need as a constant reminder of what we are doing and where we are heading.
We don’t often think of the “use” of time. We may rue our present, and that is not the way to live well. Time is an illusion, it is true, but it seems real enough for us in our present environment. So we can’t just ignore it.
“[Y]ou are the power and the source for all that you think, all that you see, all that you feel, and all that you would be and do. You abide in that freedom constantly.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 170)
We give lip service to the law of attraction, but all too often we don’t take it to heart and really live it. We make the difference; we have that much power.
This is a secular way of viewing our world, but when we add spirituality to it, we benefit far more. We try to live with only one hand to make a difference when we don’t listen to the New Testament, and learn that believing about the outcome of anything we do is vitally important. Live with both hands today. Let the power of a full commitment change our lives.
We make the difference in our lives and in the world we inhabit. If all of us were to turn to the Force who guides everything, we would know a change for the better that would astound us.
“Therefore, The Way of Transformation does not require you to change your circumstances. It merely requires that you change your attitude toward them by recognizing that they are harmless, by recognizing that you have called all things to yourself.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 170)
It is very reassuring to me to realize that I have called all things to myself. If I like what I have called, then all is well. If I don’t, then I have the means to change it. We really do have that power.
Attitudinal shifts can be easy. It just requires that we make up our minds for a change. When we pray, we get inklings of the things that need to change in our lives. And then we make the tiny effort required to turn things around to something better—if we are not satisfied with what we have. But often, the only thing that needs to change is our attitude. We need to realize that God’s way is right and good, and when we follow the best and highest that we know, all is well.
Our circumstances may not seem harmless to us, but when we change our attitude toward what transpires, we can see the benefit in what we have been through. We know more now, we love more now—and so attitudinal change is inevitable as we progress along life’s highway.
Make up our mind to alter what we don’t like. We will be helped.
“The Way of Transformation is simple, for the way of efforting one’s way into the Kingdom cannot flow from the guidance of the Holy Spirit.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 14, Page 169)
We move into transformation when our heart is full, when Love overflows our being. We don’t get God’s attention by imploring relentlessly and often. He knows when we want to think that we are ready for Awakening. He doesn’t always agree.
So we must be patient, know that by our effort we can do only so much. A Course of Love counsels the removal of fear and judgment from our thoughts and feelings. When we do this, we are removing the blocks to the awareness of love. And that is what we need to do.
The only thing we need to do. Awakening may come suddenly, when we least expect it. I know someone who had suppressed anger for years, and then when he blurted out his discontent, he knew immediately that grace had descended upon him, and he felt intuitively that this Awakening would last.
God knew all along that he was cloaking his anger, and this very cloaking was standing in the way of genuine loving. And God certainly wants us genuine.
Know that efforting will stand in the way. Be ourselves, warts and all. Then God can act in us to remove the impediments that have kept us from Awakening. And we will find that removing fear and judgment, in genuineness, takes no effort at all.
“I do not need the one that you call my Mother; she does not need me. But, oh, how we delight in creating together that which extends the holy, the good, and the beautiful—without end! Will you come and play with us?” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 13, Page 168)
“Need” is a slippery term. Jesus and Mary are both whole in themselves, united with God, and so the human aspects of needing a soulmate are muted.
We might learn from Jesus’ example. If we approach our significant others with “need,” they may be overwhelmed, and paradoxically be less able to actually help us. Our neediness drives them away, something that we don’t want. When we love from a full heart, united with God, we love aright. And “needing” another person is not part of the equation.
Of course, we are not as advanced as is Jesus, nor Mary. We sometimes do “need” human companionship and human love in addition to what we feel from God. This is as it should be. We don’t have to pretend that we are more advanced than we are. But our relationships blossom when we don’t lean on each other. We go to God for that support.
Don’t burden our nearest and dearest with gigantic needs than only God can fulfill. Enjoy the companionship and the love, but go to God when we feel needy.
There are dimensions of experience awaiting you that are so much grander than the dimension of the body-mind! But the way that you get to them is by bringing full awareness to what you are choosing to experience in each and every moment. (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 13, Page.167)
I don’t think that this quotation is describing dimensions of experience in the afterlife; I think this quotation is describing a greater dimension to experience right in this world we inhabit now. The “body-mind” is circumvented, all too often. Sometimes we have not given up the ego, and egoic tendencies and egoic patterns sabotage us at every turn. Sometimes we have given up the ego, but we find that we still don’t know what to do with ourselves because we haven’t yet found Christ-consciousness.
Be gentle with ourselves. We are not without limitations in this world. But when we open to larger dimensions, intuitively, we are coming in to our own. These intuitive responses are telling us how to live happily. They are also solving problems for us, problems with solutions right with the problems.
If we focus on the wonder of this world, we will be taking the right path. We are meant to be happy here, regardless of limitations, regardless of any suffering/pain. We can rise above difficulties if we make the mental and heartfelt effort. And there is very little struggle involved. The Holy Spirit asks only for a “little willingness” (from A Course in Miracles).
Enjoy the wonder of nature. Enjoy the wonder of our relationships, becoming holy rather than special. Revel in the pleasures of this world, because this is not hedonism. This is supreme good sense. If we make the most of what we have now, then whatever comes in the future will be easier to take.
We will have discovered the secret to a good life.
“The only transformation you can experience in space and time is the reaching down from the depth of the ocean into one tiny, temporary wave and readjusting the little foam drops on the tip of the wave you call the body-mind of the self, so that it begins to be a transparent conduit for an awareness of the ocean itself. That is the game of awakening. It is actually the most delightful use of time you will ever find.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 13, Page 166 – 167)
Don’t we want to have delight in our lives? Well, when we are out of sorts, then we need to adjust that tiny, temporary wave from the ocean that is our body-mind. This personal self is temporarily inaccessible to a greater understanding. But we can’t readjust on our own; we need help, and we can have it from God Himself. Ask for help in removing discontent, moving us to delight. There is no better use of time.
We are—all of us—engaged in Awakening, whether we are seeing glimpses or are sustaining it. We can hope that our glimpses will elongate, and elongate they will when our attitude is right. Ask to have a readjustment whenever we lapse into negativism. Ask to see things properly again.
Yes, we want delight in living. And we can have it! This is the great promise of Awakening.
Note: I will leave Choose Only Love for the moment, and return to The Way of Mastery in my blog posts. I will return to Choose Only Love a little later on. – Celia
“You then, are Christ, playing in the world—unlimited, unfettered, unvictimized by anything. . . .You simply create the structure of your experience.” (“The Way of Transformation,” WOM, Chapter 13, Page 165)
Here we see that we are indeed creating our own reality, just as we heard in New Thought and in the New Age. If we believe that Jayem channeled Jesus, and I believe he did, we have on the highest authority—Jesus himself—that we attract what happens to us by the focus to which we bring our consciousness.
This is how Jesus can be with us, any of us, at one and the same time. He focuses his consciousness wherever he might wish. This is indeed a reassuring concept.
So: We are all—ALL—Christ, playing in our world. We are not victimized by anything, because we always have the choice to change our minds about what we experience. We are unlimited creations of God. Our potential is therefore limitless. A Course in Miracles talks about “limitless release” and it is this that we are confronting today in this blog post. We have the right and the will to structure our experience in line with the will of God—or to avoid Him and choose to live by our own very limited ego.
I hope that all will choose the guidance of God and will follow His will for a glorious future—beginning today. There is no better way to live. Unlimited, unfettered, unvictimized. . . .
“Within your self is a place where you can read God’s purpose for you. There, in the sacred precinct of your holy will, resides truth, love, and Heaven. It is where we are living now.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:III
We often wonder what we are here for. This quotation tells us that we simply must look within to find the answer. Of course, we can still get ourselves all tangled up with superficial answers that are coming from either the ego or (later) the patterns of the ego. We can still confuse ourselves.
The way to be certain that we are reading our purpose correctly is, in my opinion, to look back over our life and see what we have been doing that seemed “right.” When we have really been on the beam, we have known it. Our joy has been full, for joy is an indication that all is well. God intends us to be joyous, even in the midst of living in a difficult world. God’s joy is an indication that we are in our purpose.
I think we have an overall purpose, all of us, to heal ourselves, and our brothers and sisters. This purpose obviously takes many forms, and it is these many forms that we need to focus upon—to know what is the particular form that healing takes in our lives. A Course in Miracles has a good affirmation, “I am here only to be truly helpful.” And in the healing that we will do, we will be truly helpful. We don’t impose on another our own will, though. We let healing occur through our connection with God.
Heaven resides in this inner place that we are accessing today. As the quotation says, “It is where we are living now.”
“God communicates eternally with your self and all selves without interruption of any kind.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:III
If we only listened to the message of this quotation! Yes, God is always right here, trying to get through to us. Why don’t we listen more? We are willful, and sometimes that will is turned against divine guidance. We think we know better, but we should know from experience that when we forge ahead, unmindful of what God might say, we make mistakes. We don’t live as well.
Make a decision today that regardless of personal thought, we will lift up our decisions to a Higher Power. He will show us why His way is best. And when we think rightly, we know that we are communing with our interior, where God dwells. We will make the right decision, if we listen attentively, if we discern carefully.
This communication with God is eternal. We will place ourselves in a better position for the future if we listen well today. There is no interruption to God’s influence on us. Even the ego did nothing, when it held sway. It acted only in illusion, and we would now be firmly embedded in reality.
All selves are the Self whom we all share. When we make a decision with God’s input, we choose for all the lives that we touch. And we touch everyone, though we can’t see how this is possible. Don’t let our finite ideas change the truth that we are impacting a vast field of all of our brothers and sisters.
Note: Published in MIracles magazine (Jon Mundy, publisher).
by Celia Hales
“Seek not outside yourself. . . Do you prefer that you be right or happy? . . . No one who comes here but must still have hope. . .that there is something outside of himself that will bring happiness and peace to him. If everything is in him, this cannot be so.” (ACIM, T-29.VII.1:6, 9; 2:1-2)
“I asked within A Course in Miracles: Would you rather be right or happy? For happiness can only be the result of perfect trust. And perfect trust emerges from perfect loyalty. And perfect loyalty emerges spontaneously in the mind that has rested in surrender.” (“The Way of Knowing,” WOM, Lesson 31, Page 353)
“Your mind might still prefer to be right rather than happy, so it is important that you let your heart lead in making this new choice.” (ACOL, C:10.18)
Jesus comes right to the point when he asks the question, “Do you prefer to be right or happy?” He knows that a large part of our difficulty is found in our stubbornness in special relationships, special relationships that he would ask us to transform into holy ones. We ask for friction when we prefer being right. We move to a conciliatory frame of mind when we let the heart feel love, and then let the heart lead us to a better type of interaction.
This is simple psychology. Secular psychology, but it points to the spiritual in the manner in which Jesus discusses it. We are asked to trust, and this trust comes about automatically when we surrender to God—and to love. Our way back home, according to ACIM, is found in our relationship to our brother [and sister]. These significant relationships heal us, and a large part of the healing is in our own attitude—an attitude that doesn’t cling obsessively to our own point of view. We turn within to find happiness and peace. And these cannot be found if we are intent on being “right” in relationships. Turn aside from the ego to let our heart speak. Our heart will then inform our mind, and we will understand how our function can be happiness, salvation, forgiveness, and giving miracles.
“[T]rue communication is communion, the union of two souls and with them, all souls in union with the totality of self.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:III
The Self is another way of speaking of God. Our Christ-Self, which we try to access as we progress, is one with this Self. This is the “totality” of which Choose Only Love speaks (as does A Course of Love). We are one with God, though we are too encased in ego sometimes to see this. As we progress, we relinquish the ego and are left only with the patterns of the ego—something that can still trip us up.
Communion with our God is the sweetest thing we can ever do. When we truly reach inward to Him, we know a peace that envelops all of our life. We feel truly at home, for in this we are touching heaven. Likewise, when we commune with our brothers and sisters in this world, we are soothed beyond belief. We truly communicate, and when we truly communicate—understand and are understood—we are blessed beyond description.
We start with our brother or sister, our way home as described in A Course in Miracles. Our holy relationships show us God. And we go home to heaven holding the hand of our brother or sister.
Allow our communion with other people and with our God inform our day. There is no better way to have a good day.
“In the depths of your heart is inscribed the purpose of your existence. Knowledge of that purpose is what we call the wisdom of the heart, an essential part of yourself. All carry it.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:III
May we all reach deep today, inside, listening to our heart, to discover the purpose for which we came to earth. There is one overriding purpose, though I think there may be different aspects demonstrated over time.
Help us to discern rightly. Help us to align our thoughts, feelings, and actions with the will of God (which A Course in Miracles says is the same will that we possess).
If we listen to our heart, we will be well served. Listening to our heart is the only way to live well. And the heart functions in love, something we all need to do.
“[I]t is essential that you remember that the fundamental thing is not to accumulate information or particular worldly knowledge. The essential thing is to live in love, to know you are loved.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:II
First things first—and love is always and forever the answer. Our knowledge/information is something in which we take pride. But our love is the only thing that matters. When our lifetime is nearing a close, we will know this. Nobody wishes that they had spent more time at the office when that person is on a deathbed.
We who study Jesus’ channeled writings may be studying them for the wrong reasons. Perhaps this is implied in what Jesus is saying here. It is interesting to understand ultimate reality, but it is not essential. And anybody who gives up grievances and resentments can live in love. The knowledge that Jesus imparts in his books give us grounding in love, it is true. But we are born with an innate ability to love. It is our birthright.
Turn to our significant others today in love. Express love. Feel love. Live love. There is no other way to live successfully. Living in love is the true measure of success.
“The mind longs to know, but the heart longs for love. In both yearnings, united, resides the longing to be, which is not other than yearning for God.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:I
This quotation highlights what has often been said about A Course in Miracles and A Course of Love—the former for the mind, the latter for the heart. Together these two books explain our yearning for God and give us a way to fulfill that yearning. Now the words of Choose Only Love are giving us a warm and inviting way to approach God experientially. Not intended to be a “course,” like the other two, Choose Only Love is intended for meditative reading and inspirational thought. Read slowly, COL fulfills its purpose of drawing us in to God, giving us the sustenance to know that we are experiencing God in our daily round.
Choose Only Love is a love letter to us from God. And He never fails us.
“The secret of this world lies not in what can be learned, but that love, and only love, is what it evokes.
“This work is a love letter.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 7:I
When we project love from within, then we see love without. Our projections create our perceptions. While we think negatively, this world does not seem to evoke love. But Jesus, who channeled these words, sees with the eyes of love, and thus he sees in the world something infinitely better than we could ever imagine.
His words to us, this “work,” is thus a love letter to us. How grand! This message can and will evoke love in our heart, as surely as Jesus’ heart is filled with love.
May we lay aside all resentments, antagonisms, grievances today—right now. These feelings are not worthy of God. Ask Him to fill our mind and heart only with what is worthy of Him.
And what is worthy of Him is always and only seeking to live love.
“The world understands power as a means to force submission. Jesus also submitted, but not to the laws of the world, not to its codes, systems, or authorities. Jesus wanted to show you, whom He loves infinitely, how far obedience should go to God, that is, to perfect love.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 6:II
Obedience to God counts for a lot. We often reach out to Him without realizing that there are requirements in place that we might not want to fulfill. If we sense that He is asking something of us, we need to dwell on that urge, that sense, and see if it is our personal mind who is speaking to us, or God within. If what we are imagining will hurt nobody, then we are wise to consider carefully if now is the time to act on the feeling that we are getting.
If we are acting in perfect love, there will be no downside. We have to use discernment here, though, because if we are still caught by the ego, we might imagine action that is actually far from God. Practice prayer assiduously. Really give some thought to the urge that is overwhelming us. Be sure that what we are hearing is coming from a Higher Power, not our lowly egoic self.
Jesus was gentle. If we use his example as our guide we will submit to God and not the world, but we will do so gently. Ask if the will to react is a God-driven initiative, in the example of Jesus. Ask to be shown the obedient-to-God way.
“Once you accept that only the eternal exists and that everything else—however powerful to the separated mind—is illusory, then you can go through the continuum of life without clinging, but simply flowing.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 5:III
Our world of form feels real to us, and we in our physical bodies are, in a sense, “supposed” to let it feel real. But I believe it is illusory, that, as A Course in Miracles says, “There is no world!” ACIM also says that projection makes perception. This would mean that our inner Self is taking from within and sending outside of us what we would experience, also what we would see. We are in a mass hallucination, which could also be called a dream.
If so much is illusory, we can flow through life, knowing that that blood we see is really catsup—not real pain and suffering. This gives us an equanimity that keeps us feeling safe. We learn, discover, from our experiences, but we do best when we don’t take life too seriously. We are meant to experience life, physical life, as real; otherwise, the illusion would have no meaning to us.
Let life flow through us. Let the dream that is life affect us, but not to our detriment.
It is illusion, an idea only, an idea in the Mind of God. The world of physical form is simply slowed down energy, the stuff of God. His eternity is all that is real, and His eternity includes the intangibles of peace, calm, tranquility, harmony, love.
“Creation had to be restored, recreated again on the basis of divine love. The original plan had become distorted and needed to be redirected back to the light of perfect love. This is what my life and that of Jesus accomplished once and for all, in union with you.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 5:II
We have been part of the restoration of creation on the basis of divine love. Of course, we don’t understand how this can, particularly because we don’t feel good enough. But the lives of Jesus and Mary accomplished this, in union with us. Here Mary makes this clear.
This is cause for rejoicing! We must do what we can to bring salvation to the world. We must allow ourselves to be conduits for divine love. We can do this, if we reaffirm our dedication. If we realize that everybody does a little bit for God, once a person has decided to be “for God” all the way. We need to say, often, “I am determined to go God’s way.”
And it will be done.
Remember that we are loved deeply. We couldn’t make any difference in the world unless we were loved, are loved. Our tranquil and kind words and deeds, prompted by this love, do count for something.
“Remember once again that this problem that concerns you so much, I will solve it. That paralyzing fear has no reason to be. What you think will happen will not. Rather you will see for yourself the benevolence of creation.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:III
Jesus is here referring to something specific, I think, in Sebastian’s (the receiver) life. His “paralyzing fear” was without reason. But now, in our world, we can take solace in these words as well as imagine that Sebastian did. “What you think will happen will not.” So often we get ourselves tangled up in knots with anticipation of the worst.
It is true that sometimes the worst does happen. Yet God gives us the grace to survive it. He gives us the grace to be sustained through the worst of it.
God will always do this. We can count on him. We can know that He means what He says. Creation is benevolent, though in our turmoil we cannot always see this.
“I want you to be happy, just as you want happiness. Let go of your worries. Give them to me. I love.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:III
What a heartwarming message given by Jesus! He is standing right beside all of us, embracing all of us with love. He invites us to eliminate worry. If we truly believed that he stands beside each of us, which one of us would still cling to worry?
None! None of us would cling to worry. Believe these words. Jesus loves. We learned this in Sunday school many years ago. Now we can understand it on a more mature basis. He can love more greatly than we can, for nothing in our experience has taught us as keenly as what Jesus knows about love. Let him give to us the knowledge that is his. Ask for this today.
We all want happiness, and while there is much that we can do to improve our attitudes, happiness does ask for divine bestowal. We can believe, rightly, that happiness is God’s will for us, for all His children. We get ourselves tangled up when we think we need to “deserve” love. We are worthy children of God, and nothing that we do or say gives us worth in His eyes (from A Course in Miracles). We are worthy as we are, without exception. We need to ask forgiveness for our mistakes, for they are not dark sins.
When we have done that, our function of salvation, forgiveness, happiness (as said in A Course in Miracles) becomes real to us.
Note: After today’s post, I’m going to take a break from posting for a little while. Thank you for your views. Love, Celia
“All pain comes from not being fully yourself. Whenever you suffer, you suffer because somehow you are not being fully you.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:II
This is a novel idea, that not being ourselves can cause suffering/pain. If this is true, we have some control over suffering and pain. If we sense these things, we can simply ask in what way we are not being true to ourselves. Not being fully ourselves is not being true to ourselves.
Perhaps we aren’t certain how to be fully ourselves. This is a common problem, but a problem easily solved if only we remember to go within for our Answers. Going within solves so much that has troubled us. It is the way we reach God. It is the way that we go home for a while, even while in the midst of this sometimes troubling world.
Pain is not the same as suffering. In this world, we will sometimes have pain, but we can avoid the emotional context that leads to suffering, because suffering nearly always has an emotional component. Jesus seems to be saying here that if we are fully ourselves, we won’t even have pain. This is an ideal situation, and not all of us can reach to Jesus’ ideal. But we can try.
Go within, in prayer, in contemplation—especially when something is troubling us. If we nip the trouble in the bud by having as a goal being true to ourselves, then we will eclipse much that has been a problem in the past.
Remember that God sustains us. When we turn to Him, we are much more likely to be successful in our desire to eliminate pain/suffering from what we experience, because it is not He Who brings bad things to us. True, He allows it, but these mysteries of pain and suffering are not anything that we can fully understand with finite minds. We need to practice acquiescence, as God does. Then and only then, in our acceptance, will we have taken the first step toward getting rid of the things in our lives that we don’t want—principally, pain/suffering.
“Love is not an idea. Love is not an abstraction. Love is you. Love is what you are.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:II
We need to understand much more about love than we do. We often think of it as simply a feeling or an emotion. But it is a Force, the Force that is God.
When we give ourselves up to love, we know peace. And we don’t know genuine and lasting peace any other way.
Here we learn that love is what we are. This is actually saying that we partake of the essence of God. He does not stand apart from His creation, but is in it, through and through. So He overshadows us with the love that is the essence of Himself.
Ask to understand love better today. Ask to see how love could be the essence of the universes, of us, of God Himself. We are created of the essence of Him.
We can thrive in no other way than to let love embrace us.
“In the wisdom of love is where you will receive what you are waiting for, receive the certainty that you are seeking, the peace you are longing for, the embrace that your hearts need. It is in love where all that is needed is given.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:II
We need that embrace! A Course of Love has a wonderful passage in which Jesus talks to us, inviting us into his embrace. And there he gives us certainty and peace. Our hearts need the embrace. We are bereft without it.
In love we find what we have been needing. In love we both give and receive. And our heart overflows with love that dwells deep within all of us, where God is.
Be patient toward all that is unsolved in our heart. Be patient, for the blessing will come. Jesus has promised, and, if anything, he keeps his promises.
“Your function is not to be anything, but to be what you are, which is love.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:I
We don’t have to fulfill a self-described image of what we want to be, a self-image. Images are often ego-originating, and false to the core. Instead, we simply need to focus on what we know of love, to fulfill a vision of someone who loves.
This cannot be hard, though our real Self has been covered over by egoic notions for a long time. Yet, even in the midst of folly, all of us have known love, from someone or something. We first receive love from God, and this first receipt from Him enables us to be able to give. If we had not first received, we would simply be unable to heal the separation, something that God Himself longs to see.
Simplify life today. Know that when all is said and done, we don’t want more honors, more promotions, more achievements. When life is ending for us, we will never say that we wish we had spent more time at the office. We will say that we wish we had loved better.
Begin today to rectify gaps in our experience of love. Pray to be brought closer to true reality, which at base is nothing if it is not love.
“The wind does what is natural to wind. The purpose of existence is to be its true nature. That is why, we have spent so much time reminding you of who you really are.
“Being aware of who you really are allows you to live as who you truly are.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:I
Often we try to live up to an ideal that is only in our mind. “Being who we are” is something more substantial than just an appeal to ideals. Knowing who we are takes some deep thought, some mystical insight, and a connection to God Himself Who will guide us to blossom as He intended.
We are individuals who best live in love, not fear, and especially not egoic fear. We know that we are really One with all our brothers and sisters, with whom, if things are good, we live in holy relationship. We unite with the depth of ourselves, the Christ-Self. As the Christ-Self learns over time, we see a bloom come to all we encounter, for projection makes perception. What we are inwardly, we see as external to ourselves. We are projecting “reality” as we view it.
God wants us to enjoy ourselves in this lifetime. Often we don’t, because we know pain, sorrow, even suffering. But these things can disappear more often than not when we are keen to follow guidance as we know it. God means us well. He does not visit bad things upon us. Usually our free will has brought the more unfortunate parts of our lives to us.
Ask today, deep in contemplation and prayer, for an understanding of the personality that has been given us. We do have some say in the matter, of course. Some of life is meant to be play. When we develop the best that is in us, we know a joy that cannot be known by anybody who is simply playing a part. We know a joy because our innermost essence is divine, and when we touch the divine, we sense God’s love in everything about us.
“To the extent that you allow your consciousness to live fully in the truth of who you are, the love that you truly are, to that extent you fulfill your purpose.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:I
Who we truly are is just – love. And when we live love, we are on purpose.
We often don’t realize how much a simple decision to love more deeply will effect change in our daily life. And this change is all good.
This is not a sentimental love, a love that overlooks bad things in an effort to make ourselves feel better. We may still express negative emotions, when we feel them warranted, but we will find them unwarranted far more often than we realize now. Love is a sold feeling, something substantial to cling to in uncertain times. It is never a tame thing, but the hardiest sense of coming into our own. We do nobody any favors when we let other people walk all over us. This is a false way of viewing love that has turned people off all too often.
Love can be and is strong in the face of provocation. Love is gentle in the extreme, but the gentlest feeling is the most powerful. It is not a two-edged sword that can be turned against us.
Ask to be shown what love really means, because we have not known. We have not known what it means to say that God is Love. We have been in the dark about this, as about many things connected with love. Love is many-faceted, solid, substantial, a Force to Whom we can cling.
Let God speak to our hearts today about this matter of His Love and what it means to us. Give God some time to get through by spending some time in quietness.
God speaks in the silence with sudden insights that warm the heart.
“Today the face which was first shown in the feminine figure of Mary and the masculine figure of Jesus of Nazareth is now shown to the world in you.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 4:I
Here Jesus is saying that we are Christ. While we may not have reached Christ-consciousness, our Self, deep within, is a Christ-Self just waiting to come out. Be patient, because the great blessing Christ-consciousness may take some time. It can’t be rushed.
When we remove barriers to love, principally fear and judgment, we are doing what we can to hurry Christ-consciousness. And our role models are Jesus and Mary. These role models were important long before Jesus’ channeled works arrived on the scene. Now we are seeing these role models as ourselves. If we can believe our holiness (as the Workbook of A Course in Miracles says), then we are making substantial progress toward our goal of being Christed.
Awakening comes to many in our world, especially now. For reasons we do not understand, it is easier to reach Christ-consciousness today than it used to be. Most people had to move into holiness after death, but now, right here in our bodies on earth, many will move into this step.
Pray for this blessing, a decision made by God Himself, today. He wants it for us, and He will bestow Christ-consciousness as soon as He sees that only good will result.
“Fear produces what it fears. Therefore, when one begins to distrust life, when one begins to create within oneself mechanisms of distrust, then facts arise that confirm that it is justified to distrust. In reality, trust in such cases is lodged in what is unreliable.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 3:III
This quotation builds on the law of attraction directly. We draw to ourselves the distrust: “. . .facts arise that confirm that it is justified to distrust.” It is so obvious that the law of attraction is real, for spiritual texts constantly confirm these ideas. And I am more likely to give credence to the law of attraction if it is discussed in a spiritual text.
We are lodging trust in that which is “unreliable”—that is, not trustworthy. We need to place our faith in something more substantial, and, for me, that represents placing faith in God Himself, the Force that Star Wars, the movie, showed so well.
We attract fear if we are not careful, if we let our minds dwell on that which is fearful. Like attracts like, as we know. If we have a simple but profound trust in life, our attitude gives us the best.
We don’t have to fear. We can turn to God, to our faith, to sustain us in our focus on higher ideals.
“Being alert in favor of love means trusting fully in love—God’s love. This is no idle clarification about trusting in the active love of God. Trusting others to solve what you think of as your problems constantly leads to disillusionment. Two similar beings cannot have in each other what the other lacks to solve their apparent problems. If this were true, one would have to be incomplete and another not, which would annul the equality of the children of God.” Choose Only Love bk.3, 3:II
I don’t think this means that we can’t get advice from other people. If neither one has a clue, though, this quotation does make sense. We can’t trust other people to solve our problems, because the problems are our contract, and for help with problems, we need to get quiet and go within, to God.
We have all we need to solve problems, but this idea will remain elusive to us until we depend on our one Source, God Himself. Often we muddle along with a problem for weeks, months, years, never asking for help. This makes no sense whatsoever. But there it is. We need to go immediately to our Higher Power when something puzzles us. Ask for clarification, ask to be shown the light.