“It is essential to realize that all defenses do what they would defend. The underlying basis for their effectiveness is that they offer what they defend.” (A Course in Miracles, FIP ed., T-17.IV.7)
But this dynamic causes the exact opposite of what we want! We get what we defend against; how good is that? In the illusory world that the ego rules, we are trying to avoid the thing that we are so massively constructing brick walls against. Here, though, Jesus makes a startling assertion that we might well check out in our daily life (especially if we don’t think Jesus has it right).
Have you ever found yourself trapped by defenses, defenses that had been erected to protect yourself? Of course. I once knew someone who was barricaded against attacks from others by a wall so strong and fortified that those of us who knew her well saw through what was happening. Unfortunately, she herself often attacked others. So, though she had never studied A Course in Miracles, she believed that she would be attacked. She projected her belief onto others, and so this was her perception. And she was attacked by others, try as hard as she might to destroy their lives first!
It was a mess. This scenario, even in description and not in the living, so easily conveys the ridiculous nature of following the ego. Attack, defense, defense, attack. We need to get real. As Jesus says in this quotation selected for tonight, defenses do what they would defend.
Vow tonight to avoid being defensive. It will be hard at first, because we reflexively defend ourselves when we are challenged by another. And especially when we are attacked by another. The psychological truth of Jesus’s statements about defense, though, ought to be enough to convince us that we need to make an about-fact promptly.
We will walk an easier pathway when we decide that defenses do not help us at all, and they harm (in the illusion) more than almost anything else.