“Yet you must understand that nothing that is not part of God is worthy of joining, nor can join with you. What you have sought to join with is the reason for your unhappiness. For you seek to join with what cannot be joined, and you seek separation from all that could be joined with you and all that would fill your dark and lonely places with the happiness you seek. (A Course of Love, 12.4)”
Affirmation: “I would join, metaphorically, with all today.”
1 – Joining, Not Separation
The passage for today is obscure, but it is likely that Jesus is referring to our belief in a separated state, and the idea that we can join with special others when we wish, and depart from those same special ones when we wish (from the Manual of A Course in Miracles). But nothing separated can actually be joined. We need to, at least tentatively and temporarily, share an idea of Oneness with all. And then the joining is easy.
2 – Spending Time with God
Jesus is not speaking here of physical joining, though he does speak of this joining elsewhere. He indicates that this physical means was meant to remind us of our desire to one, not to be separate. We are meant to be in relationship one to another; we are never meant to spend lives of isolation. I do not mean for this statement to be controversial. There are introverts who prefer solitude to the company of others, and shy people sometimes choose solitude also. There are many religious individuals in religious orders that spend a good bit of time in prayer and meditation, and for these activities they may be alone. But God is always with us, and He wants our companionship. The opening pages of the Text of ACIM says that God is lonely when the minds that He created do not commune with Him. He knows that we have fallen asleep and must be awakened. And He seeks to do just that.
2 – Joining in Onwness
So, we learn today that joining in Oneness is the intention of God for us. We are in unity and relationship, a recurrent theme of A Course of Love. The unity makes us One; the relationship makes us differentiate from one another so that companionship can occur. We are actually talking with a part of ourselves when we speak to another! And we would not wish for ourselves a bad day, and so let us be kind and loving, sparing of anger and attack, when we are with others. Our brothers and sisters deserve this of us.
May I never be guilty of choosing isolation from You. And, except in special and particular times, I would not choose isolation from other people. Be with me today as I seek to be sensitive to the interpersonal needs of other people, and to share my life with theirs, to the extent that we both desire.
I would thank You for leading me from too much introversion to a blend of being both introvert and extrovert. I learned years ago that I get along better when I share my life with others, including the personal aspects that previously I kept between myself, my journal, and my God.
We do best when we join with others, not taking the idea of separation so seriously. Separation, especially the independence that is so prized in our culture, is actually not always wise. And separation, by itself, is never wise.
May we seek and find You in the companionship that You would wish to have with us. May I speak to You often today.