“Knowing is alien to you, and that is why you seek validation. Each validation is seen and felt as a reward, a prize, a confirmation that you believe allows your conviction to grow. Because you believe it, this is, at first, quite true. But now it is no longer the time to rely on conviction that comes from the witnesses you find along your way. (A Course of Love, 28.10)”
Affirmation: “May I depend on my own knowledge.”
1 – Warning
All of us on the pathway back to God have turned to other people and their words to help us make the journey. But here there is a strong warning from Jesus. We are not to become too dependent upon others. We are, instead, to rely on the inner Self/Christ. We turn inward for correction, as well as an indication of the next step to take. And we will not be disappointed.
2 – Commune with God
This passage does not say this, but it seems to me that the gist of it is a powerful incentive to commune with God far more of our waking hours than we normally have. If we turn inward, we are, in fact, turning to God, so long as we are assured that the Self/Christ inside is operative. If we turn to the egoic part of our mind, and we encourage the personal self to emerge, we will often be misled. Let us have none of that.
3 – Validation
Validation does not have to come from other people. We can live quite sanely through following our own lights. The problem is not that we don’t know enough, but that we don’t put into practice what we do already know. Let’s change this today. Practice what we know. Yes, that is the way home to God. If we depend on others, we will get very confused. Politicians learn this truth the hard way. There are so many advisors, and they differ so much in what advice they give. The wise politician looks to his/her own lights in making decisions, once all the facts are in. We ought to do no less. And our own lights include God and His advice.
4 – Bible Verse
The Bible has a telling verse: “If ye know these things, happy ye are if ye do them” (from John). This verse seems particularly apt to our passage from A Course of Love today. We choose amiss when we don’t listen to the God within, to the Christ/Self within, but instead look overly to our brothers and sisters for validation of what we feel unsure about. We can easily be misled by others who do not see the whole picture. When we ourselves feel unsure, because we know that we can’t see the whole picture, how can we depend on others in any sure way? So we look within. And there we find God’s guidance reaching out to us. He knows. Listen today to Him.
5 – Egoic Mind
We are so used, in our egoic minds, to looking to others to make us feel good. We certainly do not need to make this mistake again, or, indeed, anymore at all. Look within. Pray, Commune with God. And much more will go wel for us.
I would look to You today. I would not depend on others to tell me what to do. They do not know. You do. Thank You for your good advice.
Validation is important, but the source must be credible. And this Source is God. The most credible Source of All–indeed, the only One.
Be with us today as we seek to have positive experiences. Help me to live peaceably with my brothers and sisters. May the actions that they take toward us be well-considered, and may we also treat them well.